An element in the essay to disagree with is how she thought she would have been a better person and have more confidence if she had grown up with cuss time. Not all people who grow up with something like cuss time will end up being a great person. Cuss time, sometimes, is not a good thing. For example, some children who have cuss time could potentially cuss when it is not cuss time. Cuss time could also lead to children using cuss words all the time. Also, there are many people who grew up without cuss time and are very confident with themselves. Having cuss time does not mean someone will grow up to be a better person or have more confidence. .